Man about town
(  last login Mar 31, 2017     ad #98998 )

Santa Monica, California
48 years old
Caucasian / White
Agnostic / not religious
Body type:
6' 0"  (183cm)
Gemini (May 21 - June 20)
Marital status:
Single (divorced)
Have Kids:
Sometimes home
Want Kids:
PhD/Post Doc
Income: undisclosed
Relocation: Unlikely
Relationship: Casual dates

My description:

It is so easy to laugh, it is so easy to hate... It takes strength to be gentle and kind.....

I am not always fun-- I have no desire to be down to earth, whatever that means-- I Also am in no need of a partner in crime as I am a super villain and partners just cause problems. I am really 6 feet tall :) . That said: I have fun often and can be quite silly. Sometimes I talk about things in ways that many people do not get, My jokes can be a bit dark, but not always.

I am a vegetarian mostly for ethical reasons, the health reasons are just fortunate benefit. If that is hard to understand than we will not likely click. I am not saying you have to be vegetarian, just vegetarian friendly. As many say on here "must love animals" I just do not limit that love to dogs, cats and people.

I also love art and the chance to be conscious for this brief bit of time. I strive for deep and meaningful relationships in all areas of my life.

When I am talking about something I am passionate about I use my hands a lot... I am told it is very cute :)

Looking for someone kind and intelligent and open to all the options there are in this little bit of time we all have...

I learned this, at least: that if one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life which he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours.
I do doctor kinds of things. I have a job with meaning that I love and have great passion for. Hint: psychologist.
Good at seeing the thing behind the thing, if that makes any sense. Turning an idea in my mind. ....

- I am not good at: math, spelling, music ( I am taking guitar lessons, but alas I am no prodigy), paying attention to things I don't care about, finding passion in things not related to people, small talk, playing well with others, I often make jokes at times when other people are being serious... more to come (perhaps a bit puckish).
I tend to talk about things that matter, at least to me. If they do not matter to you I assume I would seem rather boring....
Favorites include, In the mood for love, Days of being wild, 2046,Unbearable Lightness of Being, Betty Blue, Unforgiven. Morrissey, The Smiths, On the road, Eric Satie, For whom the bell tolls, Mans Search for meaning, The fall, A Happy Death, Choke, Fight Club, Fallen Angels,Billie Holiday, Siddhartha, David Bowie, Depeche Mode, 8 1/2,Jean Baudrillard, Zen and the art of motorcycle, Richard Harding Davis, Herzog, Albert Camus, fear and loathing, The Lover, The art of war, on becoming a person, Man and his symbols, Buffy Sainte-Marie, James Dean,Roxy Music, Joy Division, New Order, radiohead,bukowski.
I require integrity, authenticity, my heart, my wit, my intelligence. I can do without most things.... I don't need a passport because I never leave home!
I think about how to bring more meaning to all of this. Pondering Foucault, Heidegger and Camus and the conversations they would have had.
On a typical Friday night, I might be: 1) Lost in thought and conversation.....2)Curled up in a ball, in a puddle of my own tears... :)
I do not watch TV, and I am a sucker for a girl in a jumpsuit.
Message me if you think I have the most best chin ever! You are a free thinker and ideas do not scare you, ie You're unconventional, nonconforming. This means I am not wanting to be the missing peace to the picture you want others to see you as. I want you not to care what others think as long as you are a kind person. Ridiculously clever would not hurt either.

You are a little out of place with most people, as they seem a bit distracted and missing the point of being alive. you laugh a lot, you're sarcastic, and hopefully a bit weird. (and want the same in a man).

If you like or hate what you have read and you think we would be a good match or bad match.... Send me a message... You see none of all this BS we write matters until we are close enough to know if can work.

If I seem a little strange, well that's because I am.


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