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Berkeley, California
38 years old
Caucasian / White
Agnostic / not religious
Body type:
5' 6"  (168cm)
Not important
Marital status:
Single (never married)
Have Kids:
Want Kids:
I want (more) children
Income: $60,000 to $80,000
Relocation: Possible
Relationship: Serious relationship/marriage OR activity partner

My description:

I'm Kelly. I look for someone who, like me, cares about the integration of compassion and reason. I'm looking for a long-term soulmate/genuine match. I believe that compatibility is something we both discover and create. We discover it by already matching up with each other from the beginning with our values, goals, and physical compatibility. We create it by maintaining it for the long-term.

Qualities that describe me which I hope we both share: 

*freethinking (which is about process more than conclusions)
*ignostic (look it up if you don't know what it means :)
*agnostic and/or atheist
*vegan primarily for compassion reasons, but also health, environmental, and humanitarian reasons 
*no interest in recreational drugs/alcohol
*creative and original more than conventional and traditional
*open-minded and kind-hearted sincerity

*assertive more than passive or aggressive

*philosophical (I care about the nature of things, whether from a Western analytic approach or a more Eastern parable/metaphorical approach)
*intellectual in the service of action (I'm not a fan of just talking about politics and religion, for example; I'm a fan of talking the talk and walking the walk. :)
*artistic in some way (it doesn't have to be creating your own art, whether it's visual, musical, culinary arts, etc.; it could just be feeling something for art and appreciating it. I do nature photography as a hobby, where a flower or leaf reaching up toward the sunlight is beautiful for what it is as well as beautiful for what it symbolizes)
*love the outdoors (like hiking in forests, mountains, and near the ocean...I recently finished a solo road trip to all the national parks in the contiguous states and a safari in Africa, and I believe that what you get out of travel depends more on who you are than where you go, with equally many treasures to be found at home as in places far away)

*love inspirational and thought-provoking talks and critiques of modern day society (one of my favorite speakers is Simon Sinek)




I look for someone who shares with me a desire to perceive people both accurately and in their best light, who wants to find a genuine match to love and appreciate each other as we are and not just a few bits and pieces.

I also look for someone who would like to raise a healthy, loving family. I do not relate to or look for someone who wants children only because of instinct or tradition. 

I'm INFJ and I enjoy interacting with other iNtuitive people who are well-rounded with the integration of thought and feeling. Even more, I enjoy interacting with people who care to develop themselves as human beings, who care about realistic optimism, rational altruism, and accurate empathy. I'm drawn to people who see through the false trichotomy of head/heart/body and who care about integration of thought, feeling, and action. We are likely to relate very deeply if you are like that, too. :)

Another quality that both describes me and what I look for is an inclination for openness and transparency, being open and honest about who you are and why you are here. 


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