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Toronto, Ontario, Canada
54 years old
Caucasian / White
Body type:
5' 7"  (170cm)
Not important
Marital status:
Single (never married)
Have Kids:
Want Kids:
Yours are fine
PhD/Post Doc
Income: tell you later
Relocation: Possible
Relationship: Casual dates OR serious relationship/marriage OR activity partner

My description:

I'm a consultant, Ph.D, researcher, entrepreneur, and musician. I'm no longer a kick-ass assassin. The insurance premiums nearly killed me.

I've had long-term relationships, but I've been mostly achievement-oriented for much of my life. I've also made some bad mate choices along the way. Same species, but wrong for me in other ways. I woke up one day and realized that I want more out of life, including romance. I'd like to be hopelessly 'affected' by someone, just one more time.

Boy, oh boy. This year and the next are going to be interesting. I can hardly sleep. I've worked for years as a self-employed organizational psychologist, and now I'm re-launching my consulting firm, going guru and global, and trying to save organizations (and the world) through positive psychology. No big whup. If there's time left over, there's that pesky middle east crisis. And, after being a failed music major many years ago, I've also returned to writing and recording music.

"Whoa," she says. "You just got finished saying...". Yes, women tell me that they're not interested in me because I'm too motivated, with too many pursuits. Hopefully, you have your own mountains to climb. I can empathize, and be very supportive if you do. I'm drawn to strong, non-traditional, highly achievement-motivated women. A 'co-dominant'.

Women tell me that my dating profiles are intimidating. Please don't think I’m too serious. I have a sense of humor, and I put work into making people laugh. What else can I say to quell any fears?

- I never learned to tie my shoes properly (double loop knot).
- My top strength from the VIA Survey of Character Strengths is humour and playfulness.
- Some past girlfriends were intimidated by me at first, as well, but quickly learned to laugh at me (not with me).
- I once almost broke my foot demonstrating the Three Stooges/Curly Howard floor spin.
- Despite my apparent intelligence, I sometimes do dumb things in front of people that leave them wondering if I actually do have a Ph.D.

Fun facts:

- I'm in the gym every day. I'm an ex-trainer from many years ago.
- I collect guitars the way that some women collect shoes. I have 10 of them (guitars, not shoes).
- I've been hit by lightning.
- I'm a child of government housing.
- I was class clown.
- I own Hardy Boys books. I read them to wind down from stressful work (and to regress to childhood).
- I'm not outdoorsy. There are insects out there. The only showers out there are the ones that come from the sky, and last the entire camping weekend. Day trips and hiking are fine. Maybe this will change for someone.
- I'm extremely ticklish.


Hard to say. See above? Think we could be a good match?


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