Tam / PlayfulResearcher
(  last login Sep 16, 2022     ad #49151 )

Escondido, California
51 years old
Caucasian / White
Almost veg
Body type:
5' 8"  (173cm)
Cancer (June 21 - July 22)
Marital status:
Single (never married)
Have Kids:
Want Kids:
Not sure
Some college
Income: tell you later
Relocation: Possible
Relationship: Serious relationship/marriage OR activity partner

My description:

First of all, since this is "VeggieDate" site; re. diet:

Though I've been vegetarian for much of my life, I now find that my body does seem to do better with some meat. I was vegetarian when I signed up for this site, but now I'm not vegetarian anymore. I do appreciate vegetarianism and the value of that for those who choose it, however I just don't choose that for myself anymore. And what you do is up to you, of course!


That said, if you are still reading, here's a little about me:

I am an intuitive, independent and deep thinker. (INFJ Meyers-Briggs type, if you know that system.) 

I'm generally happy and calm, which then brings out my creativity, which is then usually applied to healing myself, others or Life on planet earth in some way.

Natural interest in healing arts and beauty. Love synthesizing various healing and growth modalities for creating greater positive healing experience.

I *love* Homeopathy! And Compassionate Communication (aka Nonviolent Communication, NVC) and Higher Alignment profiling/self-development system. 

I love creative synergy in the moment with someone. 

Raised as Christian-Hindu, with love for all forms of spiritual truth, I keep learning and practicing. Currently am actively including/learning non-medicinal Shamanism.

Love sitting under a tree in Nature, find this to be healing.

Enjoy gardening, self-sufficiency and love research, especially research that leads to healing, self-(and other)-knowing, and other ways to make life better.




Really, a deep friendship with authenticity and honesty is what I'd like to create with you, before a more serious relationship.

Person I'm seeking:

Wants to work in creative synergy and growth with me. 

Mutual support, encouragement, problem-solving and empathy-giving together for the ups & downs of life and living.

I'd be a good match with someone coming from a Love and Abundance mindset, which isn't about rules or perfection (including of love and abundance) but about accepting then embracing Wholeness (including dark and light both in self and world).

Best if you're ok with all kinds of self(and other)-knowing or personality profiling systems I'm into, like Human Design, Higher Alignment and Vedic Astrology, also Meyers-Briggs. These systems help me to appreciate everyone's uniqueness and beauty, and is very helpful in conscious growth.

Anxious attachment probably wouldn't work with me. I tend to be a bit avoidant until I get to know you well and feel comfortable, then I become more Secure Attachment style. Would enjoy working with someone to become more "Earned Secure." 

No energy-and creativity-sucking addictions wanted here; if you regularly use pot, alcohol, drugs to change your state of consciousness - I'm not into that. I do love conscious growth; addressing whatever is coming up. I like Parts work for this and NVC, plus other cool modalities.


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