( last login Aug 4, 2025 ad #42346 )

Location: |
Mission Viejo, California |
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Age: |
51 years old | |
Gender: |
male | |
Ethnicity: |
Caucasian / White | |
Diet: |
Vegan | |
Religion: |
spiritual | |
Alcohol: |
Socially | |
Smokes: |
Never | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Height: |
5' 10" (178cm) | |
Sign: |
Libra (Sept 23 - Oct 22) | |
Marital status: |
Single (widowed) | |
Have Kids: |
At home | |
Want Kids: |
I want (more) children | |
Education: |
Associates | |
Income: | tell you later | |
Relocation: | Yes | |
Relationship: | Casual dates OR serious relationship/marriage OR activity partner | |
My description:
Well, I'm real. I guess that's a good start, in today's southern California. I'm just me, learning and growing at every opportunity. I'm probably most known for my music, dance (Swing/Salsa/Tango/Ballroom...also in a modern dance company based in Oakland CA) performance and teaching, acting, activism, humour, kindness, generosity, playfulness, and telling it like it is. And of course, travel addiction. Very politically progressive. Years ago, I backpacked around Europe a few times, and did some travel and performing in Costa Rica. I dig nature, political/environmental/social consciousness, and making the world a better place...starting with oneself. Energy work, massage, sharing arts such as music, theatre, poetry...all things I love. There are videos online on y.t. and f.b. of some of my performances dancing, playing with my former bands Deep Stirrings and GOT THAT SWING!, and drumming in my Bellydance/drum duo, Global Groove. I really appreciate how being a musician, both professionally and randomly strumming anywhere in the world, introduced me to so many beautiful and artistic souls. Dance performance has done a lot of that for me as well. What else...I'm vegan, into adventure, and addicted to Ireland.
"The glass is not only half full...the level is rising"...was my attitude for most of my life. Now that I've seen how cruel the world can be, I'm hoping to find ways to nurture joy and hope in my son, in spite of it.
I used to think I had a huge community of friends, but grief showed me how very few were real. I place a lot of value on sincere connection, integrity, loyalty, honesty, teamwork, and family.
I haven't been single since before this whole dating-app-world really took off. Now alone with a toddler, navigating the dating world is sure to be fascinating.
Seeking:
I enjoy making new connections with conscious beings. Someone I can respect, who is politically aware, values justice/honesty/peace, loves nature and travel, likes vegan food, is playful, loves music/theatre/dance/movies, and is genuinely into health of mind, body, and spirit. If you like good vegan food, movies, animals, and children, we'll be off to a good start :)
I'm open to friendships with people who align with my values, and love with the right match.
Grew up in the Bay Area (NorCal), and have lived in SoCal since '93, but I'm open to relocating.
