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Bend, Oregon
48 years old
Caucasian / White
Body type:
6' 1"  (185cm)
Gemini (May 21 - June 20)
Marital status:
Single (never married)
Have Kids:
Want Kids:
Not sure
Income: $25,000 to $40,000
Relocation: Possible
Relationship: Casual dates OR serious relationship/marriage

My description:

I'm kind, intelligent, empathic and warm (INFJ). Deep and meaningful conversations can keep me engaged for hours, and I especially enjoy topics like philosophy, psychology, metaphysics, astrology, and spirituality. Some of my favorite activities include hammocking, kayaking, hiking, backpacking, meditating, live music, and traveling.


I've lived a healthy, organic, vegan lifestyle for over 20 years and have taken care of my mind, body and spirit. Like an iceberg, my life accomplishments are ? below the surface and have more to do with personal growth, spiritual transformation and gaining wisdom than accumulating wealth and prestige. I live very comfortably but am not materialistic.


It can be hard to get a true feel for someone’s energy without meeting in person. That’s the biggest downside to online dating IMO, but I’ve found that using astrology to look at the synastry between two people’s charts goes a long way towards understanding this important element. I’m especially interested in talking with you if you’re willing to to share your astrology chart.


For everyone else, I’ll try to describe my energy and way of being in relationship. If I’m at home with my partner and comfortable in my space, my energy is generally relaxed, calm and positive. I spend a lot of time at higher vibrations reading spiritual books and meditating on the cushion, while I work and while hiking in nature. I don’t come across as new-agey and don’t bury the negative to appear positive. My positivity and joy spring from within as the natural result of focusing on higher vibration thoughts, emotions and choices.


I integrate both light and shadow sides in a down to earth way that allows for plenty of sensual pleasure as well as spiritual bliss. I’m a passionate and sensual lover and enjoy intuitive tantric sex that can last for hours. It is important to me that my partner is in touch with her sexuality and truly enjoys connecting deeply on a physical, emotional and spiritual level.


I currently live in Bend, OR where I’ve been for the last 7 years. The character of this town has changed considerably with its rapid growth and it no longer feels like the intimate mountain town I fell in love with when I moved here. I’ve been considering a move soon to a smaller town on the west coast. At the top of the list are Ashland, OR, Mt Shasta, CA and Arcata, CA.



I'm looking for a deep, heart-centered connection with an emotionally available, growth-oriented soul. Games and drama only create distance and distrust, so please don't waste our time if you haven't grown beyond these behaviors. Attractive qualities to me include kindness, empathy, depth, honesty, sensuality, sensitivity, intelligence and optimism.




“There is no such thing as a totally conscious relationship because the very nature of relationship is to draw forth the unconscious and realistically one cannot draw forth the unconscious without acting it out at some point...

This is all part of the healing, it is not a failure, it is the very fire from which the phoenix rises…


So what determines a conscious relationship?


Simply put, it is a relationship in which the conscious always gets the better of the unconscious, it is an arena for constant shedding and surrender and this can only happen because of the committed intention of both partners that is supported by their respect and love for each other…


You cannot have a conscious relationship with someone who is not ready to release their false self image, the desire for liberation has to be greater than ego’s fear of annihilation and just as importantly, the desire for the other's freedom has to be greater than the need for possession and ownership...


There is no arrival in a conscious relationship, no fairytale forever after... It is a journey of evolution of two souls upholding the highest in each other and that contract has its own timing.


This is not a relationship for the faint hearted, it takes a warrior spirit because there is no room for hiding, no face to mask, no receptacle for projection, no one to blame, no one to make you whole... At the end of the day there is only a mirror of you facing you and in that facing, if there is compassion for self, the divine marriage takes place within.”


~ Caroline Lisser

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