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London, United-Kingdom
51 years old
Caucasian / White
Body type:
5' 10"  (178cm)
Not important
Marital status:
Single (never married)
Have Kids:
Want Kids:
Not sure
Income: $100,000 to $150,000
Relocation: Possible
Relationship: Serious relationship/marriage

My description:

2019 Update: Kind, supportive, good-looking, fit, active, adventurous, successful, intellectual, literary, and occasionally depressive NON-MONOGAMOUS VEGAN seeks same (okay, you don't have to be depressive; perhaps best not :) for committed lifelong partnership of love, art, adventures, awesomeness, and cuddling. Veganism (i.e. shared fundamental moral belief that inflicting suffering, especially wildly unnecessary suffering, is always wrong) is nonnegotiable. Non-monogamy (whether that's poly, RA, open relationship, theoretical non-monogamy, occasional playmates, or just radical non-jealously of other people in our lives) is negotiable (and I suspect always has to be).

“But I was in search of love in those days, and I went full of curiosity and the faint, unrecognised apprehension that here, at last, I should find that low door in the wall, which others, I knew, had found before me, which opened on an enclosed and enchanted garden...”

Novelist, atheist, feminist(1), veganist. | Certified health nut, exercise junkie, long-distance trekker, adventure hound. | Londoner, dual national, classical liberal, INTP -> INTJ -> (maybe, sometimes) ENTP. | Autodidact, obsessive reader, student of the perfectibility of humankind, militant grammarian (not of MA(2)). | Enjoy thinking of myself as honourable, well-mannered, literary, intellectual (in the proper sense of 'being interested in ideas'). | Poly, sapio, genuinely extravagantly fond of women, romance junkie.

I believe in Honour - and other careworn Romantic values - and that art and love are the two best palliatives for all your existential aches and pains. (I basically organise my life to maximise the production of art and the experience of love.)

For me, POLYAMORY is about relationships, connections, and *people*. (Not that other thing. Though the other thing is nice.)

And VEGANISM isn't about felicity of dining choices, it's about basic shared values - specifically the belief that killing, torture, rape, and enslavement are wrong, which you think would be pretty uncontroversial...

Like all other hominids, I really need a TRIBE around me.

1) This ought to go without saying - anybody with both half a brain and half a heart ought to be a feminist. But here we are.

2) If you get that, MESSAGE ME RIGHT NOW.

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Drop-dead brilliant, vegan, and starkly (but perhaps strangely) beautiful in very geeky glasses, all of which would definitely get my attention. Additional bonus points for kindness, non-monogamousness, and outdoorsy-/active-/adventurous-ness. Though, I never quite know how attracted I am to a woman until I see what she's reading.




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