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Portage, Indiana
58 years old
Caucasian / White
Body type:
6' 4"  (193cm)
Cancer (June 21 - July 22)
Marital status:
Single (never married)
Have Kids:
Want Kids:
Yours are fine
Income: tell you later
Relocation: Planning to
Relationship: Casual dates OR serious relationship/marriage OR activity partner

My description:

Experience has shown that some of you will see my age & move on. Before you do, you owe it to yourself to read my entire profile, especially the note at the end. After that, you can make an informed decision as to whether I can meet your deepest needs.


What are your dreams? What do you really need from the man in your life? What gets your juices flowing & keeps you in the game? What can you not live without but have never felt safe enough to ask for? These are the questions that keep me awake at night. Some of your needs are as unique as your signature but I'll list a few below that are common to all women: You need a man who can listen to you without judgement or advice, even when you get a little bit crazy, & trust me, we all get a little bit crazy now & then. You need a man who takes his role in your life seriously enough to find out what feeds your soul, then deliver at levels beyond your wildest expectations. You need a man you can respect, who lives with integrity & has values you can agree with. You need a man who shows up as a man & takes life head-on. You need a man who includes your children when planning activities. A man who can take the full force of the hurricane that is raging in your heart without a flinch and keep on loving you through the tears. A man who will protect you & take care of all the details so you can relax and be yourself. In short, you need a man to be a man so you can be the woman you were meant to be.

Oh, yes. after all that, I'm vegetarian almost vegan, stable, open-minded, ISTJ, have a slightly warped sense of humor, & fun to be around. I figure I'm on target to reach financial independence in 2019 & when I make it, I'll resign my position, sell my house, then dedicate myself to nonprofit work & loving the woman of my dreams. This will likely mean relocating so geography is not an issue. I haven't met her yet but if you're vegetarian or vegan, you have a decisive advantage.

I hope I have piqued your interest enough to drop me a note. For those skeptics out there, please see the note below.

Note to all age-mongers: Yes, I'm 58 & my pics are recent. I make no apology for that & I welcome responses from intelligent, healthy women from 18 to 118 but realisticly 30-50. According to my last cardio exam, I have the heart of a man half my age & I look the part. In the last year, I've run a marathon, swam & snorkeled in the Hawaiian Islands, ridden nearly 2,000 miles on my bicycle, climbed & lopped off a 60 foot tree, then bucked up the wood to heat my house. In answer to your more pressing question, the one you won't ask me directly: don't worry. My internal plumbing is fully functional & my flag raises every morning even without much help from me. Okay, I know. Your Aunt Margaret told you not to talk to anyone more than five years older. It's time for you to decide what's more important, rigid rules or having your cup filled to overflowing. If my profile is not enough to overrule whatever committee has appointed themselves to run your life, then I wish you the best of luck in your search. However, you might wish to ask yourself what you are really running from (hint: It aint me babe).


Wow! You're still reading after that rant? I'm impressed but I'll lighten up a bit. The most important traits are intelligence, integrity, and the ability to take risks. A sense of humor is useful as are meaningful life goals. Vegetarian is good, Vegan is even better. I prefer nice looking over drop-dead gorgeous; down to earth over glamourous; & real over rehearsed. I'm weak for brown eyes, yoga, high heels, dog lovers, boldness, & a relaxed sense of confidence. My deal breakers are smoking, Trump (!), dreadlocks, aftermarket boobs (except for breast cancer survivors), & an entitlement mentality. No judgement here. I can be friends with most people but have higher standards for my lover. Most important, you must believe deep inside that you are a Goddess and deserve to be worshipped. Beyond that, all is negotiable.

If you like me so far, drop me a note & let's see where it goes.

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