( joined Jan 2017    last login May 8, 2019     ad #107334 )

Philadelphia, Pennsylvania
57 years old
Almost veg
Body type:
5' 6"  (168cm)
Cancer (June 21 - July 22)
Marital status:
Single (never married)
Have Kids:
Want Kids:
Yours are fine
Income: $40,000 to $60,000
Relocation: No
Relationship: Serious relationship/marriage OR activity partner

My description:

Let's start with the deepest Truth: Gomez and Morticia Addams have the perfect relationship. THINK about it: They play all the time, only have eyes for each other, keep the creative fires smoldering, trust one another, and after all their years together, their romantic and sexual connection is clearly VERY alive! ;)


Hi. I am happy, playful and as Jewish as Jesus, Bernie, Marianne Williamson, Jon Stewart, Wilhelm Reich, Betty Friedan, Gloria Steinem, Leonard Cohen, Mary Magdalene, Ruth Bader Ginsberg, Ram Dass, Barbara Marx Hubbard, Mel Brooks, and the whole catalytically creative, iconoclastic, choosing-to-differ, paradigm-shifting, authoritatively anti-authoritarian 'trouble'-making lot!

For me, life is about how we show up for the people we love and how we show up for ourselves. It is about authenticity and honoring each moment, however beautiful or painful. Dating profiles don't offer an easy way to put this side of us out there. The order of the day is to be charming and witty and fun. I actually am charming and witty and fun (or so I've been told!), but I'm also deep and passionate and soulful, and it is those parts of me that guide me and for which I want to be seen. It's cool that you climbed Mt. Everest and all (super cool, actually), but when it comes down to it for one another, I want to know I can count on you to meet me on that level, as you can count on me to meet you.

Likewise, spiritual or Nondual awakening / "Self-realization" matters to me, but only if we also bring it and ourselves back to the HUMAN level between us, right Here. I am no fan of spiritual bypassing or false transcendence.

Now, there is so much in and about Life to love and be grateful for — and to share!!... :

I value honesty and transparency, integrity, courage, being on my purpose, being physically affectionate, compassion, groundedness, playfulness, delight, monogamous commitment, wonder and awe, infinitely ongoing LEARNING and growing, passionate musicality and musical abilities -- and have 'em to give! I cherish both reverence and surrender AND (so long as mind is in service of the heart) the holy 'irreverence' of independent critical thinking and of questioning authority. I'm passionate; I'm peaceful; I am spiritual but not religious, and I am politically and socially liberal/progressive; and I am grateful for this miracle, and for what I 'have' -- including amazing friends and family. 

I am both a (quite NON-Orthodox) committed Jew (*not* as a "religion") AND a spiritual universalist. Oneness and Difference go TOGETHER. The universal is only realized THROUGH the particular. I am keenly aware of the false equation of unity with uniformity. We can be ONE without being the same. And I'm grateful for the great gifts that this points to, and that can be ours, personally and globally.

Ah… Would that we lived in a world in which I felt no need to voice the following caveat: 

I am deeply opposed to Donald Trump and virtually everything he stands for. If you like Trump I am definitely not your man. Equally, if you don't like Jews (or African Americans or women who own their power or gays or "immigrants" or any other minorities and 'others' who differ) I would definitely not be your man.



In the past I've had 3 long-term relationships with women taller than me; and I share this because, in finding the 1 singular woman to share the rest of our long and happy lives together, I don't care if you're taller or shorter than me. Just be YOU.

Here's to you meeting me and me meeting you and bringing the respective inner work and joy within each of ourselves to our astonishingly beautiful, glorious and fulfilling relationship with one another!  You can't rush a sunrise. But wow can you enjoy it! I see a happy and lasting marriage of joyful, co-creative conscious equals in my future.

P.S. Having moved much and many times in my life, I am not open to relocating to another city or state. It's wonderful right where I am, and I hope to meet you, my true partner-to-be, either here or in a 'place' of an openness to moving here.

I am no longer an upgraded member and thus can no longer open or see your onsite messages unless you are. [I'm not even sure that I can open and see messages from you if you ARE an upgraded member!; yet I know and trust that, should you want to connect, you are fully able to search and find me. I love taking the lead, and can't initiate fully *here* as I otherwise would because my "premium" membership has expired and right now I've just got the option of generic "winks". Yet my website exists... So I invite you to be bold!


You are spiritual in a non-dogmatic and grounded way, genuine, warm, deep AND can be goofy, fun, loving, playful and happy, and ready for true, lasting love. You know and love yourself (totally different than egotism/narcissism), value your own soul / creative essence, and know how to be close-and-connected and NOT give up yourself. Of COURSE you're utterly 'imperfect'. Who isn't?! And you're wonderful. As you Are. We share honesty, kindness, love of music, love of animals, laughter, great minds, adventure, this gorgeous Earth, passion, and OUR passion. AND we just LIKE each other. The friendship between us is as strong as the Eros/romance. We keep growing in friendship and trust because we both know how to be present: there for our selves and each other. When two have that, that ability to open, the sparks go even deeper, and can last for a lifetime of fulfilling couplehood and (no, this is NOT an oxymoron!) Hot Monogamy.




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