( last login Dec 7, 2013 ad #11914)
I want to be in love again, to be in a relationship that's fun and positive, for love energy to flow, and then it be natural to care for each other. I do not want to have to "work" on the relationship. (Work is number crunching, or scrubbing and cleaning...) Nor do I want to "build" a relationship. I'm much too delicate for construction work. Think real, not contrived! When problems arise, we can solve them together as appropriate for the situation. I do not want to use psychology to "snag" a man. I do not want to second guess myself during those first dates for fear of making one of those crucial mistakes. I want to feel comfortable to be myself. I do not want to be worshiped as a goddess. It's an awful lot of pressure to be expected to be a Supreme Being on top of everything else that I do. I do not want to have my man eating out of the palm of my hand. If I want a creature that eats from my hand, I will get a dog. I do want to be with a man I can go toe-to-toe with, to love and accept each other for who we are.
Just to give you an idea of what I am like, here are some words: adorable, ethical, loving, quirky, honest, enterprising, busy, sometimes serious, often not, constantly learning... I am a yoga instructor and a vegetarian, actually vegan most of the time. As a vegan, I prepare interesting food. I am also a medical typist (it helps to pay the bills) I am healthy and energetic and young for my age. I have one child, and he is the joy in my life (most of the time...) I have two cats. My son is a young adult, age 20, and he may be with me through college. I like to sew; I like to draw; sometimes I sing. I've done some volunteer work for the prison, a recording of my chant music that they play in their meditation classes. I play the triangle and a little bit on the djembe or other percussion instruments. I can be shy sometimes; at other times, I'm outgoing. I tend to be very demonstrative of affection; love to kiss. My favorite music is the blues, but I also like jazz and rock and classical and new age and spiritual music.